The only bit of sentimentality I'll allow myself is from Ernest Hemingway who said something very true; "But man is not made for defeat. A man can be destroyed but not defeated."

Bear in mind he also said, "Always do sober what you said you'd do drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut." Never have truer words been spoken.

Sunday 1 March 2009

Yebo


Hi there,
I hope this finds you all well.
First of all sorry for the lack of communication over the last few weeks as we only had the internet installed fairly recently.
For those of you who have been trying to contact me over the phone I am in the process of getting a new mobile as mine is stuffed and only works intermittently so don't be surprised if it rings off.
I have been out of hospital for a month now and I am enjoying a bit of peace and quiet to be honest. It's weird actually getting uninterrupted sleep and not waiting to use the bathroom. That being said, being at home is also a lot more sedate and I am trying to resurrect my post-graduate degree and finish it off once and for all before I go completely insane. However, there is test cricket on so I am enjoying chilling out and relaxing.
I have to be a bit more careful at home as I decided to wash up the other night and filled the sink up with hot water and managed to burn the hell out of my leg. I only noticed I had burnt my leg when it started spasming like crazy. Anyway at least I can't feel the pain but it has left a nasty wound on my leg.

I am still being treated for the embolisms and should be clear after six months treatment. The doctors wanted me to go for regular blood testing but I told them I would just inject myself with fragmin daily rather than spend hours at the hospital waiting for blood tests etc.

We have bought a Ford Focus Estate and it should be delivered in the next month or so. I am in the process of getting driving lessons organized so I can learn how to use hand controls and get out a bit more. I am not particularly confident going out at the moment but I am sure that will change over the next few months.
Jay is well and gone back to school to teach London's future criminals. She took the last few weeks off to help me out and so we could spend some time together. A couple of my mates came round to watch the rugby recently and it was great to just spend a normal day with my friends.

The flat was looking good until the neighbour's boiler broke and wrecked our ceiling. The council want to refurbish the flat and totally redesign our bathroom and bedroom to give me a little more space, which would be great as I scrape my knuckles on the door frames at least once a day and can't turn my wheelchair in the bedroom and bathroom. My neighbours must think I am a total nutter as I scream profanities whenever I get stuck or hit my hands.

So all is going well and I am happy and relieved to be out of hospital and will keep you posted,

Bruce

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